45 years old•
Isle of Gigha, United Kingdom
IsabellaOh
a woman,
looking for a man aged 30-50
About me:
Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. Many men I've met are struck by who I am for I am simply different. What I search for are not the ends but the means of experiencing life and the lessons learned along the journey for it is thru discernment that we gain true wisdom. I know now that life is not black and white. It is full of paradoxes. That is the beauty of it: the ambivalence of life that cast shadows that are neither black nor white. I am best described as introspective hence insightful, amorous and very sensual, playful yet genuine, smart yet witty, regenerative and resilient, confident but kind, spiritual yet religious, classy yet down-to-earth, positive and grace under pressure, assertive but not agressive. I always try to stay within my equanimity and keep above the fray. Life afterall is too short for anything else. My profoundest wish is to live the rest of my life with my soul mate and true love. (A soul mate is someone who's the identification of oneâ??s soul.) He must be someone who shares my values and personal conviction. I hope to grow old with him and to make a difference by helping the poor. To live life with passion and to share life's simplest and true bliss as we discover each other and the world together. I've chosen Icarusfirefly as a pseudonym for both are synonymous to hubris. To remind myself of the sins of too much pride and to heed the call of our limitations for our actions have consequences.